Lesson 22: Weddings, Gerunds and Coffee mugs. Dec 9th, 2005
Preview: On this show we talked about Japanese weddings and the use of gerunds and infinitives. We also talked about British and American money and the opening of a quirky new store.
First, we tried to answer a question from Tanit in Sardinia about the verb “prefer”. Basically, you can use infinitive (to + verb) or gerund (ing) with prefer. e.g., I prefer to eat dinner late at night. e.g., I prefer eating dinner late at night.
Point 1: Prefer is usually followed by a gerund when the meaning is general, but by the infinitive when they refer to a particular time or situation. Always use infinitive with “would love to”, “would hate to” etc expressions.
e.g., I prefer watching TV to listening to the radio (general). e.g., I would prefer to watch TV with you (specific time).
Japanese weddings are traditionally held at Shinto shrines, but increasingly, many young Japanese couples get married in a church or chapel. It seems that the Japanese are rather eclectic when it comes to religion. Eclectic means taking the best parts of different ideas or methods.
Lyrics I got so much to ask you It’s never the time Why would I spoil a perfect evening? We?ve gotten this far on being polite Besides, I know you?re proud of me
When I was made Did they leave out a part? Did you know this and choose to guard the secret? You said everybody?s born with a beautiful heart Well, what was wrong with hers and Why did you leave it?
If I start to cry, I may not stop Love runs dry, I run off
Can you help me with this heart inside my chest? It ain?t perfect, but you should see me use it But it only works when I make a mess When it looks like I?m about to lose it
If I start to cry, I may not stop Love runs dry, I run off
Yeah I?m just like my mother Yeah I?m just like my mother And if you don?t love her, What does that mean about me?
If I start to cry, I may not stop I wanna know why I run off I wanna know why I?m like this I wanna know why