I feyimika Sonuga, Yoruba Goddess & Shamaness... what you go through can either suck the soul from you or show you a better road for its growth truly... family is so much more than this lying society shows you... it goes beyond oaths, borders & skin tones, and a being that seems like a demon can be a kin too, but seeing them as essential to your progress is not always so simple like we thought it... I have so many people close to me that seem evil and soulless trying to pry the life and wits from my righteousness, telling me my left is right and my right is left, till I have no rights left, its quite the mess, crazy how a soulmate from another life that you created a life with can try shit to make you die wicked, all is nicht gud, (All is not good), I accept this, but when these wretched beings I should call kindred disrespect me & diss me I smile & forgive them, & call them kindred again so they can always remember, and you and me both are good at talking & solving problems quickly, so try it Goddess & listen... the next time your father or madre calls you a name or laughs at your pride so you fall into shame, laugh at the gall of their claims, & offer them tidings they all can relate to, talk to them calmly till their acts of passive violence are all but sated... tell them you always forgave them because you see deep inside them that they wish they could be this prideful, and all they have to offer are the objects and lies of a toxic society that will let them be washed away and forgotten like uncharted tropical islands... while you will flourish & offer humankind all the offerings they couldn't truly find to solve the problems the news all too often talks of like dubious violence & skewed views like misogyny and when you do you will carry the best parts of them the rest lost within you to honour them regardless of all the horrors they caused you... because that is what a Goddess would do... And you ARE a Goddess truly