I have four-hundred-and-twenty-two friends, yet I'm lonely I speak to all of them everyday, yet none of them really know me
The problem I have sits in the spaces between Looking into their eyes or at a name on a screen I took a step back and opened my eyes I looked around and realize That this media we call social is anything but When we open our computers, and it's our doors we shut
All this technology we have is just an illusion Community companionship a sense of inclusion Yet when you step away from this device of delusion You awaken to see a world of confusion
A world where we're slaves to the technology we mastered Where information gets sold by some rich greedy bastard A world of self-interest, self-image, self-promotion Where we all share our best bits, but, leave out the emotion
We're at our most happy with an experience we share But is it the same if no one is there? Be there for your friends and they'll be there too But no one will be if a group message will do
We edit and exaggerate, crave adulation We pretend not to notice the social isolation We put our words into order and turn our lives a-glistening We don't even know if anyone is listening
Being alone isn't a problem let me just emphasize; If you read a book, paint a picture, or do some exercise You're being productive at present not reserved to recluse You're being awake and attentive and putting your time to good use
So when you're in public, and you start to feel alone Put your hands behind your head, step away from the phone! You don't need to stare at your menu, or at your contact list Just talk to one another, learn to coexist
I can't stand to hear the silence of a busy commuter train Where no one to talk for the fear of looking insane We're becoming unsocial, it no longer satisfies To engage with one another, and look into someone's eyes
We're surrounded by children, who since they were born Have watched us living like robots, who now think it's the norm It's not very likely you'll make worlds greatest dad If you can't entertain a child without using an iPad
When I was a child, I'd never be home Be out with my friends on our bikes we'd roam I'd wear holes on my trainers, and graze up my knees We'd build our own clubhouse, high up in the trees
Now the parks so quiet, it gives me a chill See no children outside and the swings hanging still There's no skipping, no hopscotch, no church and no steeple We're a generation of idiots, smart phones and dumb people
So look up from your phone, shut down the display Take in your surroundings, make the most of today Just one real connection is all it can take To show you the difference that being there can make
Be there in the moment when she gives you the look That you remember forever as 'when love overtook' The time she first hold your hand, or first kiss your lips The time you first disagree and you still love her to bits
The time you don't have to tell hundreds of what you've just done Because you want to share this moment with just this one The time you sell your computer, so you can buy a ring For the girl of your dreams, who is now the real thing
The time you want to start a family, and the moment when You first hold your little girl and get to fall in love again The time she keeps you up at night, and all you want is rest And the time you wipe away the tears as your baby flees the nest
The time your baby girl returns, with a boy for you to hold And the time he calls you granddad and makes you feel real old The time you've taken all you've made, just by giving life attention And how you're glad you didn't waste it, by looking down at some invention