Feifei Hello, Finn. Sorry, I'm not actually going in to the office today. I'm taking care of my niece.
(Baby talking)
Finn Oh, what a sweet baby!
Feifei Isn't she adorable? You know, I'm thinking about becoming a full-time babysitter!
Finn Oh, really?
Feifei Hang on, Finn. (To the baby) Time for your bath, little one!
(Baby laughs)
Finn But Feifei, you don't actually want to change your job, do you?
Feifei Well, I enjoy my job. But sometimes, you know, it can be very stressful. I feel like a change...
Finn Really? But you're so good at your job! I know how you love completing projects. And we'd all miss you so much.
Feifei I know. But dealing with babies is so much easier.
Finn Well, just don't throw the baby out with the bathwater, Feifei.
Feifei What do you mean?! I know how to take care of a baby. Why would I throw her out?
(Baby crying)
Feifei See what you've done.
Finn Sorry! 'Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater' is an English idiom which means: 'don't lose something valuable while we're getting rid of something else that we don't want'. So I was talking about your job, Feifei. Just because you find it stressful – that's the thing you don't want – don't stop completely and lose what's valuable.
Feifei Ah, I see. So you think my job gives me satisfaction, in spite of the long hours in the office… so I shouldn't give it up.
Finn That's right. 'Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater' is the expression in this edition of The English We Speak. Now let's hear some examples of how it's used.
Examples
I know you don't like the dress, but I think if you make a few changes to it, it will look lovely. It's such beautiful material. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. I know the wallpaper is ugly, but this is a lovely house. We can always redecorate.
Feifei Thank you, Finn. Having colleagues like you who care for me is so important. You know what? I don't want to be a babysitter after all.
Finn That's the spirit!
Feifei So… here's the baby and… well, the nappies are in that drawer.
Finn Feifei, what do you mean?
Feifei Well, Finn, someone has to take care of the baby. I'm going to the office. See you later. Bye!